Over the past year, I’ve tested quite a few male masturbators—some good, some forgettable. But the two that really stood out for me come from Lovense, a brand that has truly impressed me with its focus on build quality, performance, and innovation.

Today, I want to talk about the Lovense Solace and the Lovense Gush 2—two very different toys that offer unique experiences, depending on what you're looking for. I’ve tested both multiple times, and here’s my honest take—from the perspective of a man in his 50s who values quality, convenience, and a product that actually delivers.

A little bit about me: I’m 51, married, still sexually active, and let’s just say—I’m above average in size. Being French, I naturally enjoy exploring new experiences, and reviewing male masturbators has been both fun and insightful.

By the end of this post, I hope you’ll have a clear idea of which one is the better fit for you.

Let’s start with the Lovense Solace:

If I had to crown a king of male sex toys, the Lovense Solace would wear it. This thing is a beast—in the best possible way. It’s powerful, well-built, and the kind of toy that transforms a simple solo session into a full-on experience.

I won’t lie—it’s not for everyone. The Solace by Lovense is bulky, a bit loud, and it really shines when you have a dedicated setup. I usually clamp it onto my desk when I know I’ve got the place to myself. Add a generous amount of lube (you’ll need it) and you’re set. My penis size is above average and I didn’t experience any issues with it. It feels tight but great. That’s like if somebody is giving you a great oral sex session.

What really makes it special is the customizable stroke depth and speed, all controlled through the Lovense app. It’s a hands-free experience, and when the Solace delivers, the orgasms are truly next-level. I’ll be honest: not every session ended in climax (but that’s me), but when it did, I was left shaking. If you’ve ever finished and then had to just sit there for a minute thinking, what just happened?, you know what I mean.

My only gripe? It needs a proprietary charging cable—don’t lose it. And because it’s quite loud, it’s not one you can sneakily use when somebody’s home. But if you’re looking for power, Solace is the one.

Now, the Gush 2: more portable, more playful

The Lovense Gush 2 is a totally different beast. It’s compact, super easy to use, and great for edging—something I personally enjoy from time to time. That said, don’t be fooled by its smaller size—I’ve experienced climax every single time with the Gush 2. No exception. It’s that good.

You can use it actively, pairing it with your own movement, I’ve used it mostly on its maximum setting while combining it with my own movements, and the sensations are surprisingly good.

Another option: just lie down, switch it to the maximum setting, and enjoy the Lovense Gush 2 completely hands-free. Honestly, one of my favourite ways to use it is lying on the bed and letting it do all the work. It’s a completely relaxing yet intensely pleasurable experience, and the snug fit and high-quality silicone make it feel very natural.

The adjustable bands are a nice touch—they let you control the pressure, and once you find your sweet spot, you’re ready for a ride. It’s quieter than the Solace, much easier to clean, and the battery life is solid. Plus, like all Lovense toys, it connects to the app so you can tweak the settings and explore patterns.

Heads-up: when you reach climax, it can get a bit messy—just something to be prepared for. But honestly, that's a good problem to have, right?

Final Thoughts: Which One Should You Buy?

Lovense Solace desk setup — Lovense Solace with clamps: desk setup

Both the Solace and the Gush 2 are excellent in their own right—but they’re designed for different moods and setups.

If you want a powerful, immersive, hands-free experience and you’ve got the privacy and space for it, go for the Lovense Solace. It’s a real investment piece and one that delivers results—when it hits, it hits hard, really hard..
If you’re looking for something portable, quiet, easy to clean, and great for either edging or quick masturbating sessions, the Gush 2 is the way to go.

Personally, I switch between the two depending on how much time and space I have. But I’ll say this—Lovense is doing something right, and both of these toys prove it.

Let me know in the comments if you’ve tried either—or if you have questions before you buy. I’m happy to share more about my experience.

Get the Lovense Gush 2 at Lovense.com(here)